Solo travel can be a rewarding experience, but it is also hard. Being alone in a country where you do not know the culture, language, or how to get around can be challenging. As a woman, you can find yourself in situations that are not safe. I personally love solo travelling. For me, it gives me freedom to do what I want when I want. However, there are downsides, and this post seeks to lool at the less fun aspects of solo travel. 

Feeling Lonely

Solo travel means you handle everything—eating, sleeping, and exploring—on your own. This can sometimes make it hard to stay connected with loved ones, and nothing compares to the comfort of a hug from someone you care about. To cope, stay busy and reach out to fellow solo travellers. Acknowledge that it can be tough, but remember that the experience is always worthwhile.

 Unfriendly locals

In tourist-heavy cities, locals are sometimes be less welcoming due to the behaviour of some visitors. I recall a moment in Milan when my friend asked people to take our photo in front of the Cathedral, only to be ignored by many. The language barrier could have played a role, and we did get a sense of annoyance from passersby. Despite this, stay positive, keep asking, and be open to meeting friendly locals. We eventually had our photo taken by a warm-hearted local.

Seeing loving couples

In romantic cities like Paris, Venice, and Bratislava, you’ll encounter many couples. If you’re feeling homesick or heartbroken, this can be tough. If you’re in a long-distance relationship, the distance may weigh heavily on you. Focus on finding the positives, embrace your emotions, and learn to be happy for others.

Stares

In some countries, like Germany, staring can be quite noticeable and uncomfortable. As a foreigner, you may attract more attention. Smile at those who stare, and if the stare feels hostile, either look away or stare back if it feels right. Over time, you’ll become accustomed to this behaviour.

Harassment

Solo female travellers might face unwanted attention, such as being followed or touched. It’s crucial to assertively and loudly say no to unwanted advances. While these experiences can be upsetting, standing your ground can help mitigate the discomfort.

Getting sick

Falling ill while traveling can be particularly challenging when you’re alone. Without someone to provide comfort, you must rely on your own resilience. Hospitalization may mean being without familiar support, highlighting the tough aspects of solo travel.

Losing touch with travel friends

You might not always exchange contact details or maintain connections with travel friends. Even if you do, staying in touch while constantly on the move can be challenging. It’s bittersweet to have shared memories with transient friends.

Trying to make new friends

Building new friendships can be intimidating, especially when you feel alone or out of place. It’s natural to feel awkward or struggle to connect with others in new environments. My suggestion is to join bus tours, walking tours and stay at hostels where you will interact with other travellers.

Nostalgia

Solo travellers often reflect on their adventures, which can be difficult for others to relate to. Talking about travel experiences may lead to feelings of nostalgia, as you lack others who shared those exact moments. I am guilty of this and try to limit talking about my travel experiences to not be that person who keeps mentioning their travels.

Losing Touch with Friends from Home

Maintaining friendships while travelling can be tough, especially as people move on or you outgrow certain relationships. However, this period of distance helps you identify your true friends and creates space for new connections.

Holidays Away from Home

Celebrating holidays like Christmas or New Year’s Eve alone can amplify feelings of homesickness. Witnessing others celebrate with loved ones might remind you of your own family and friends. Embrace the highs and lows of travel, as they are all part of the journey.

Moving Past the Challenges

Despite these challenges, many can be overcome with ingenuity and a positive mindset. I often share tips on how to handle these issues while traveling. I’d love to hear how you deal with similar experiences.

Thank you for reading, and happy travels!